Do You Want
to be
one of the few people in control of their divorce?
Unless you represent yourself you are tied to a divorce attorney for your entire divorce. Custody and finances are in his hand. Do you know what you need to do? Lots of people find out their divorce is controlling them - their time, finances and children.
Are you divorcing a narcissist?
If you are divorcing someone with a personality disorder such as narcissism, or fighting for custody, or dealing with someone hiding assets, you need excellent legal help - someone not afraid of doing real discovery, refusing to be on the defensive and someone not afraid of the judge. Family court has lack of oversight which leads to a free for all and a person becomes a victim of both emotional abuse and then legal abuse. Choosing the right attorney is only part of the equation - YOU MUST LEARN WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE.
Do you want to decide what happens or do you want your spouse and the lawyers to take control?
Hi,
I've been there and I want to help you. I've watched my former spouse pay $1400 for TWO hours of legal work - and we did it every other week! This was after a trial and an appeal which he both lost. Who won? On paper I did, but in reality, the lawyers won. They made all the money and put their kids through college on it and bought a new Mercedes and a Prius. What a mess. I wish there were "do-overs" like in kid's games, because now I know what NOT to do.
The average client goes through several attorneys, each with a new retainer, and loses more money in one year than in any other time of their life. Several of my coaching clients have come to me with over $200,000 in attorney fees and they are not close to ending the divorce.
Why does this happen? Because people trust their attorney - in spite of the fact nothing is getting done. In spite of the fact that their attorney never told them how complex a bad divorce can be, or they are about to lose custody, or the house, or all the savings, they continue to make excuses and rationalize their behavior: "I can't fire him, I will never get anyone else." (Your attorney knows this one and is counting on it.) How about, "I've already spent so much, I might as well stay." This rationalization is why the house always wins in Vegas - because the money lost is somehow thought to magically make the future better. It changes nothing - not the percentages of winning on the next roll of the dice or the chance your attorney will now do better for you.
I' ve learned a lot over the years in working with clients, male and female, young and old, rich and poor, and I've been hired by lawyers, entertainers, and every day people and the same constant remains: if you aren't prepared, you aren't ready. Preparation takes many forms - information and emotional readiness. Don't make the mistakes I did - don't make the mistakes so many make. I want to help you.
Ann Bradley, M.A.
Divorce Coach
The Big Secret That No Attorney Wants You to Know:
CLIENTS MUST UNDERSTAND THE DIVORCE PROCESS
Why? Because information means
- you know your rights,
- you know the law
- you know about the family finances
- you understand your spouse
Losing control of your case means losing the case. This can happen so easily when you hand control to someone else - someone who may not have time for you, who may not read your emails, who may take the retainer and become bored with your case. Someone who may not understand you have concerns about the children, who may not tell you a custody evaluator is not necessary and can harm you. So many things you may not know and may never find out from the attorney.
Is there something you can do? YES! DIVORCE PREPARATION
Divorce Preparation is the single most important part of a divorce.
If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there. If you talk about the divorce to everyone don't be surprised if your spouse uses the information against you. If you don't know what kind of attorney to hire, don't be surprised if you get the wrong one. Divorces are hideously expensive. The planning you do ahead will save you time, trouble, heartache and thousands. Want help? I take on a few clients each month for one time planning sessions. I NEED HELP!
Don't waste another minute on $300.00 an hour attorneys, NOT UNTIL YOU LEARN
HOW TO DIVORCE THE RIGHT WAY FOR WOMEN
AND
HOW TO DIVORCE THE RIGHT WAY FOR MEN
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ahead and click on them and see if you don't find something you are
concerned about: money, control, children, lawyers, life after
divorce.
Why put both here?
Because frankly BOTH of them have information EVERYONE NEEDS and the more you know, the better your case will be. If you want custody and/or a good relationship with your children you better learn what your spouse is learning. If you don't want to lose the house or your health insurance, better find out what your spouse's attorney is saying and doing. If you want to be in control and not the attorney, READ THESE ebooks NOW. Don't wait or you will be sorry. I wish I knew then what I do now. YOU CAN - and it is never too late!
Because frankly BOTH of them have information EVERYONE NEEDS and the more you know, the better your case will be. If you want custody and/or a good relationship with your children you better learn what your spouse is learning. If you don't want to lose the house or your health insurance, better find out what your spouse's attorney is saying and doing. If you want to be in control and not the attorney, READ THESE ebooks NOW. Don't wait or you will be sorry. I wish I knew then what I do now. YOU CAN - and it is never too late!
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A Divorce Lawyer's Warning on Custody and the Courts
The Problem With Collaborative Law
Narcissistic Abuse
Divorce Lawyers Need a Short Leash